Meet Vera

Vera is the person you reach out to when you aren’t ready to tell anyone else.

She is a team of trained paralegals with deep experience in domestic violence and emotional abuse.

Vera won’t judge you. She won’t call you. She won’t share what you tell her with anyone else.

She simply reads what you send, quietly and carefully, and reflects back what she sees.

When she is done, she will leave a private letter for you in your secure mailbox here.

You are not alone. You are not invisible. Vera sees you.

How to Share with Vera:

Open Your Mailbox

Inside, you’ll find a letter template waiting. It’s a simple guided form. Built like a quiet conversation, not a blank page.

Answer What You Can 

Answer the questions you want to.
You can skip anything that feels too hard. There’s no judgment, and no rush.

Upload for Vera

Screenshots. Texts. Notes. Photos.
One file or many. It’s your choice what you share and how much.

What Vera Will Tell You

What Stands Out

Vera points out patterns that might be hard to see when you’re living inside them.

Where the Pressure Builds

She gently maps the pressure points: the moments where things tip, shift, or feel wrong.

What Could Matter Later

Vera quietly notes anything that could carry emotional, legal, or custody weight down the road.

A Private Reflection, Only for You

Your letter is written for your eyes only, left safely in your mailbox within 48 hours.
Nothing is shared, saved, or sent anywhere else.

From Chaos to Clarity: What Women Saw in the Report

These anonymous reflections were shared by women after using our services. Their stories are confidential and shared with permission.

  • “I didn’t even realize what I was living through until I saw it all laid out in front of me. No one had to convince me. I just knew. And for the first time, I didn’t feel crazy.”

  • “I didn’t want to talk to anyone. I just wanted to know if I was making this up. Uploading quietly, getting answers privately, it was everything I needed.”

  • “I wasn’t ready to call it abuse. I just needed someone to look. No judgment. No pressure. What I got back was clear and calm and it helped me trust myself again.”

  • “He told me I was too sensitive. That I misremembered. That no one would believe me. But this report showed the patterns. It showed I wasn’t wrong. I cried when I read it.”

  • “I had all the texts, all the emails, but I didn’t know what they added up to. This gave me a third-party view. Not emotional. Just honest. It helped me see the big picture.”

  • “There were no phone calls. No interviews. No having to explain myself. Just a quiet space to upload what I had saved. And then a report that felt like a deep breath.”

  • “I kept rereading the report because it put into words what I couldn’t. It saw what I couldn’t. It was like someone else had finally witnessed my story.”

  • “I didn’t expect to feel strong after reading it. I just wanted answers. But seeing everything organized, written out, named — it gave me this calm resolve. Like, okay. Now I know. Now I can move.”

Questions for Vera

  • Yes. Vera reads what you share quietly and privately. After your letter is delivered, everything you uploaded is securely deleted. Nothing is saved, and no one else will ever see it.

  • Yes. You can upload anything you want Vera to see — screenshots, texts, emails, notes, photos, or anything else you have been saving.

  • You’ll receive your letter from Vera within 48 hours after submission.

  • No. Vera will never call you, email you, or ask for anything else.
    Your private letter will simply be placed in your secure mailbox within 48 hours.

  • There’s no threshold you have to meet.
    If it matters to you, it matters to Vera.

  • No. Vera is a team of trained paralegals with deep experience in domestic violence and high-conflict cases.
    Vera cannot offer legal advice or therapy, but can quietly reflect back what your documents show — and help you see what might matter emotionally or legally.

  • No. All documents and images you send are deleted from our system within 30 days — and usually sooner. Your letter from Vera is delivered securely and privately, and we do not retain a copy. We believe your story should be in your hands, not ours.

Send Vera Your Story

Leave your story in Vera’s mailbox. A private space made for reflection.
What you share is quietly read, gently answered, and then deleted for your safety.
No phone calls. No pressure.
Just a clear reflection, quietly returned within 48 hours.

One Flat Fee - $199

No appointments. No interviews. No pressure.
Just a private letter, clearly and quietly returned.

Attorneys often charge $300 an hour. Therapists may schedule you weeks out with $100 co-pays.
Vera offers a quiet reflection — steady, clear, and yours to keep — within 48 hours, for one flat fee.

Simple Pricing, Quiet Access

We believe clarity should never depend on your ability to pay.
If you can’t afford the flat rate, you’re welcome to join
Vera’s confidential waitlist.

No interviews. No explanations. No judgment.

As donated letters become available, they are quietly offered in the order requests are received.

Need Help with the Fee?

Sponsor a Letter. Change a Story.

Your gift gives someone the quiet space to see their story clearly — maybe for the first time.

Thank you for making that moment possible.

Contact Us

If you have a question, you’re welcome to reach out. Whether you’re wondering about the mailbox, your upload, or how everything works, we are here to answer.

You can email us at hello@dearvera.com or use the form below.

We typically respond within 1–2 business days.

Please know:

  • We cannot offer legal advice.

  • All messages are answered quietly, carefully, and with complete confidentiality.